Marriage: A misery

Marriage is a union between a man and a woman, this can also be defined as an institution where two comes together to learn how to be bonded together to become one flesh. Marriage is the joining of a man and a woman as husband and wife; it is a ceremony or sacrament

Standard for better marriage

Marriage is honorable in all with the bed undefiled, but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge  for the reason that both  of you have decided to get married the man should leave his father and mother and shall cleave un to his wife and both shall become one flesh, and they where naked and where not

Branches of marriage

LOVE:  this is a strong positive emotion of regard and affection, you will be affecting your spouse positively if you love him, and because of the love you have for him or her you will do anything for him or her.

1. INTIMACY: this is a feeling of being close, intimate and belonging together with the absent of fence and barer create mysterious intimacy in your marriage, in no way will this marriage know privacy, the place of transparency becomes inevitable, when you build a good and strong intimacy with your spouse, both of you will be  committed to each other.

2. SEX : in order  to achieve an optimum intimacy frequent sex is the answer, sex  definitions

·         Sex is an activity or felling resulting from the gratify sexual impulse

·         Sexual love or erotic love:  this is a deep feeling of sexual desires and attraction, this should be done by husband and wife, for your marriage to grow and remain firm, sexual intercourse should be considered at paramount as a source of good intimacy and happy marriage.

RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN LOVE AND SEX

If lack of sex is said to be the source of unhappiness in many homes, then love is missing in that home.

When you see people that are in love, you will notice a cleave and commitment to each other, even when they are not married they will always want to be together, sharing every thing in common.

Any sex derived without love is associated with lust, and will yield no fruit it is said that a man seeking for sex will do everything to get it and when he gets it he goes his way, then that portrayed love will be gone because with was not love but lust

Let’s see the dialog below

The couple seen in dialog one have lost their first love are now working with past love therefore leaving shrive and self, when your love is broken, you will find nothing good in your spouse than inconvenience and problem, but take a good look at the couple in dialog two, you will find love, affection, happiness, care, commitment etc and they are united, this can only be achieved in place of frequent sex, love, faithfulness and oneness

COMMITMENT: when you are committed to your spouse you live to make him or her happy irrespective of what it will take, you will not say no when it’s important to say yes.

TRUST: this is the strait of believing in the honesty and reliability of your spouse.

When you build a complete confidence in your spouse you mitigate the chances of harboring intruders and marriage breakers in your marriage, remember” without love their won’t be trust without trust their won’t be faith, that bring us to say that

Love -+ trust = faith.

TRUTHFULNESS: this is an act of being truthful, so telling lies is not allowed in marriage, when you keep secret from your spouse, then you leave a life of lies and deceit with your spouse

FAITHFULNESS:  This is required in marriage, because it is only faithfulness that makes you feel guilty if you go out of the oath of marriage, remember the reward for that away match may cost you your live destiny even your legitimate families please avoid it.

By: GOODNESS OPIAH